Lady in Red…

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I’ve never seen you looking so lovely as you did tonight
I’ve never seen you shine so bright
I’ve never seen so many men ask you if you wanted to dance
They’re looking for a little romance, given half a chance
And I have never seen that dress you’re wearing
Or the highlights in your hair that catch your eyes…

It is Rock Your Rack time again, and this time around, I am featuring the SONIA ensemble from AlaFolie. As I promised, my RYR posts this year are going to be informative. RYR hosted by Models Giving Back supports the National Breast Cancer Foundation which aids in making mammograms available to those who need them, and in battling breast cancer.

Here are some breast cancer facts you may not be aware of:

  1. 85% of breast cancer occurs in women who have NO HISTORY of breast cancer in their families.
  2. According to the American Cancer Society, breast cancer accounts for 29 percent of newly diagnosed cancers.
  3. Women who are diagnosed with cancer before age 40 have a nearly 4.5-fold increased risk of developing another breast cancer.
  4. Exercise reduces breast cancer risk for women of all body types – even lean women, according to Leslie Bernstein, Ph.D., director of cancer etiology at City of Hope.
  5.  If you’ve been diagnosed with breast cancer, you’re up to four times more likely to develop a new cancer in the same breast or in the other breast.


Please keep following my blog for more facts and tips during Rock Your Rack 2016, and please stop by the Rock Your Rack sim to pick up special exclusives, bid on one-of-a-kind items, party, or donate to the cause. We look forward to seeing you there!

[Head][Lelutka][Stella Mesh Head (v1.6)]
[Skin][Glam Affair][LiuLy (America 01)]
[Body][Slink][Slink Physique (v2.8)]
[Hands][Slink][AvEnhance Hands (Elegant)]
[Feet][Slink][AvEnhance Feet (High)]
[Eyes][IKON][Triumph Eyes (Evening)]
[Hair][TRUTH][Bronwyn (Ginger Pack)]
[Dress][AlaFolie @ Rock Your Rack 2016][SONIA]
[Pose][Joplino Poses][Lani 2]
[Inspiration Tune][Eric Clapton – Lady in Red]


Where There’s a Man Who has No Voice, There Ours Shall Go Singing

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If I could tell the world just one thing
It would be that we’re all ok
And not to worry because worry is wasteful
And useless in times like these
I will not be made useless
I won’t be idled with despair
I will gather myself around my faith
For light does the darkness most fear


I’ll go back to my regular format soon, because I looove telling you guys stories, but this post contains my first Rock Your Rack preview for the 2016 Rock Your Rack event hosted by Models Giving Back, so here’s the deal:

Since October is Breast Cancer Awareness month and I am participating in Rock Your Rack this year on just about every level one can participate, these posts are going to be special. With each Rock Your Rack post, I’m going to include some facts about breast cancer that not only every woman should know, but every man (because: Did you know that breast cancer does not explicitly affect women? While breast cancer in men is rare, it can happen.)

Breasts should not be so taboo. Know your body. Check yourself regularly. Don’t be afraid to speak up and speak out. We’ve all seen the shirts that say ‘Save the Tatas.’ Hell, I think I have one. Some people laugh (because hey, the word ‘tatas’ is funny, right?) but breast cancer is a serious issue. Here’s some of the reasons why:

  • One in eight women in the United States will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime.
  • Breast cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer in women.
  • Breast cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death among women.


If you’re looking for another way to get involved in the fight, please stop by and check out the Rock Your Rack event, which opens on October 1st and runs until October 16th. Sales generated from purchases of items at Rock Your Rack 2016 will benefit the National Breast Cancer Foundation. For more information about Rock Your Rack, the National Breast Cancer Foundation, and the event hosts, Models Giving Back, please see this post.

Want the details for this styling?

[Skin][((=alterego=))][Yasmine (Chai)]
[Body][Slink][Slink Physique (v2.8)]
[Hands][Slink][AvEnhance Hands (Casual)]
[Feet][Slink][AvEnhance Feet (High)]
[Lips][Zibska][Frida Lips #12]
[Hair][*Argrace*][Misao (Light Brown)]
[Tattoo][-Endless Pain Tattoos-Retro Rewind][Forget Me Not]
[Shoes][Slipper Originals @ Rock Your Rack (SLurl coming soon)][Layla Sandals]
[Pose][[RoLu] Poses][Guitar Girl]
[Inspiration Tune][Jewel – Hands]

She’s Like the Wind…

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She leads me through moonlight
Only to burn me with the sun. 
She’s taken my heart, 
but she doesn’t know what she’s done.

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Rock Your Rack 2016 is Coming!


October 1 – October 16, 2016


Breast cancer is one of the leading health crises for women. 1 in 8 women, and an every increasing percentage of men will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. There is currently no known cure for breast cancer, and its early diagnosis is critical to survival.

Models Giving Back is pleased to present Rock Your Rack, an annual fundraising event combining the best of SL Music, Art and Fashion to support the work of breast cancer charities and raise awareness for early detection which is critical to a positive outcome for this devastating disease.

This year’s event will support the National Breast Cancer Foundation which provides free mammograms, education, support and early detection services to anyone in need.

The 2016 event involved 63 designers including Gold Sponsors: AlaFolie, Athena Couture, Dulce Secrets, Emerald Couture, Empyrean Forge, LaVian & Co, Phedora, Prism and Kultivate Magazine. In addition, this year’s event will feature 2D and 3D artists for the first time with an Art show sponsored by Kultivate Magazine. Add to that the 4 Tribute concerts, 12 DJ Dance Parties, 7 Live Music Artist Shows, 9 Fashion Shows, the 10L Hunt, Silent Auctions, Art Auction and you have one must-visit event.

Designers will be providing exclusive creations with 100% of the sales of those items going to the National Breast Cancer Foundation along with a fine selection of the newest and most popular designs donating a percentage as well.

For a complete listing of events and more details on this year’s event, please visit the website:

This year’s event officially opens to the public on Saturday, October 1, 2016 at 12:00 am SLT and will close at 11:59 pm SLT on Sunday, October 16, 2016.

Together we can make a difference!

Those who are unable to attend but wish to support the cause, may visit the Model’s Giving Back official donation page at where donations can be made directly using a variety of means.

About Models Giving Back


Models Giving Back is an agency of professional, certified SecondLife models who give of their time and talents to raise funds for legitimate and verified SL and RL charities.

Models Giving Back was founded in October of 2012 by Jamee Sandalwood after a previous agency dedicated to charity work was forced to close due to the owner leaving SecondLife. Jamee felt the work that was being done needed to be continued and set out to lead the models that were already a part of the former agency into new and bigger endeavors at the newly created Models Giving Back.

To date the agency has partnered with dozens of designers and provided models for runway, print and other functions that support charities around SL.

Rock Your Rack is the creation of Jamee Sandalwood and is owned exclusively by Models Giving Back in SecondLife.

Models Giving Back CEO: Jamee Sandalwood
Models Giving Back Facebook Page:

Models Giving Back Flickr:

About the National Breast Cancer Foundation

The National Breast Cancer Foundation was founded in 1991 by breast cancer survivor, Janelle Hail. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1980 at the age of 34. At the time of her diagnosis, there was little information about the disease, and she was forced to make a decision about her health with few options. After her treatment, Janelle made a commitment to help women around the world by educating them about breast cancer and the importance of early detection. NBCF’s mission is to save lives through early detection and to provide mammograms for those in need. This mission includes increasing awareness through education, providing diagnostic breast care services for those in need, and providing nurturing support services.
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…And What Can Never Be.


She’d had to leave us, my keeper he prayed for a safe return.
But when the night came, the weather to a raging storm had turned.
He watched her ship fight, but in vain against the wild and terrible waves.
In me so helpless, as dashed against the rock she met her end.
Then on the next day, my keeper found her washed up on the shore.
He kissed her cold face, that they’d be together soon, he’d swore.
I saw him crying, watched as he buried her in the sand.
And then he climbed my tower, and off of the edge of me he ran…

Nova's Lighthouse Photo

She hated to see him cry. She hated it more than anything. When she knew they were sinking, she looked toward the lighthouse and shed a tear. He was there, she knew, invisible beyond the brightness of that light that simultaneously beckoned her forward and brought everything to a screeching halt all at once.

Even after the fire in her lungs had ceased, even after she stole her last breath and swallowed the water that ended her, she had lingered there, watching over him with the kind of sadness that only a profound loss could bring. He’d been waiting for her, and now he’d never not be waiting. If her heart could have broken again, it would have.

His words the next day were soft-spoken, like a breath on the wind meant only for her ears, but she heard them clearly.

“I’ll see you soon,” he’d said. “We’ll be together again.”

If she could have, she would have smiled then. The last time he’d spoken those words had been the day they met. She was walking barefoot through the sand, her legs and sundress dotted with droplets of salt water, when she first saw him losing a fight with the sail on his boat a few yards away. He caught her staring, and he’d smiled then–she loved it when he did that–and introduced himself.

There was something about him. Something about his slightly scruffy appearance and his farmer’s tan and that beautiful smile that drew her to him instantly, as a moth to a flame. Before she knew it, the sun was sinking below the horizon, and she was shouting her apologies as she raced back toward her car.

“Don’t worry,” he’d called after her. “I’ll see you soon! I have a feeling we’ll be together again.”

Something pulled her from the memory. He was racing toward her in a full sprint, through her, past her…

And then he was flying.

No. Falling. He was falling, and he hit the water, and the sea swallowed him whole with little more than a second thought, just as easily as it had swallowed her the day before.

[Head][Lelutka][Stella Mesh Head (v1.6)]
[Skin][((=alterego=))][Yasmine (Chai)]
[Hands][Slink][AvEnhance Hands (Elegant)]
[Nails][-{ZOZ}-][Opal Summer Grey Nails]
[Tattoo][Pinup Store @ Revamped][Serena in White]
[Lips][Zibska][Frida Lips #12]
[Hair][*Argrace*][Azami (Light Brown)]
[Dress][Miss Darcy @ Revamped][Fringe Dress (Bali Hai)]
[Pose][PosESioN][Amour #10]
[Inspiration Tune][Nickel Creek – The Lighthouse’s Tale]

You Thought I Was Coal, My Friend I’m Gold, Can’t You Tell?

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You are not like us
You are different.
I couldn’t see that
That was a compliment…

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Talkin’ to Your Ghost When I’m Asleep

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Oh, you’re never really dead to me
And maybe that’s the mystery of ours.
I used to think when you were gone
I would still hear voices in the halls…


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